a trailblazer, but among my family and friends, and in the case of blogs, I am one. While I’m not precisely an early adopter of the technology, my blog is turning 2 at the end of August, and as everyone does on birthdays and anniversaries, I’ve been having a little mental retrospective about blogs and blogging and my experiences therewith (yeah, I’m pretty sure that’s not a word). And because this is, after all, a blog, here’s some rambling on the subject.
At first, I started because I found myself sending more and more links to neat articles or websites I found while surfing to my friends, and I noticed that the volume was very shortly going to pass the annoyance threshold (some might argue that the threshold was long past, but we’ll ignore them for the moment). So, having recently started reading some blogs, and often having a lot to say but no one to say it to (say, at 3 AM), I thought I’d start a blog.
The rest is more or less history, but I’ve learned a few things along the way:
- The blog has caused me to become a lot more articulate than I was; reading myself in print usually caused me, after I stopped laughing, to start thinking about how I said what I said a lot more, and to more intelligently formulate my opinions before I went spouting them to all and sundry.
- The whole blog-catharsis thing is severely underrated. I feel so much better after ranting here that even I’m surprised. And sometimes, getting it in print makes it look so ridiculous that I wonder why I was even angry in the first place. Either way, it’s been beneficial to my mental health, which is always a good thing.
- This kind of goes along with my first point, but I think that blogging has made me smarter. I have pretty strong opinions on, well, just about everything, and writing about them on as wide a forum as the internet has really made me think more critically about what I’m saying and why I’m saying it. Also, I started thinking more about how people could argue with me on various topics I blog about, which in turn makes me hone my reasoning and, usually, discard frivolous or unsubstantiated ideas in favor of more logical ones. It’s made me think.
But I digress. To get back to the original topic—trailblazing—I have, I like to flatter myself, instigated the gradual build-up of a nice little group of friends and family who also blog, who are interested in reading and commenting on others’ blogs, and whom I am getting to know better not just by reading the minutiae of their daily lives, but how they choose to communicate them to the world. I love it!
All of them appear in my blogroll in the sidebar, but here are the sites of my little online family:
- Prachee – my sister.
- Matt – roommate and good friend.
- Jieun – roommate and good friend.
- Lori – good friend who is so busy I never get to talk to her, who is almost as opinionated as me, and who I am glad is finally blogging.
- Ila – my crazy friend whom it seems I talked to five minutes ago even though it’s been months or even years. As of this writing, hours, but still, you get the picture.
- Dev – Ila’s brother, my friend, and faithful and regular blog commenter (which rocks!).
OK, you caught me. I didn’t really instigate any of these people to start their blogs, but I’m going to take credit for it anyway.